I think it's necessary to hold on to just a piece of that sadness in order to experience true joy.
Because how would we know the joy if we didn't know the pain? How would we understand happiness if we didn't know sorrow? How would we experience the love of Christ if we didn't know the pain and sting of rejection?
This summer I went to see a brilliant Pixar movie called Inside Out, where a young girl's core emotions (Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear and Disgust) are personified. Sadness is a constant downer, and Joy works real hard not to let her be in control. Everything she touches seems to freeze or die or break.
When Riley moves to a new city, and things on the outside start affecting her on the inside and life becomes more than she can handle, she ends up shutting down emotionally. The control board in "Headquarters" freezes up. It simply won't work.
That is, until Sadness touches it. A simple touch of Sadness causes Riley to break down in her father's arms, and she cries and cries and cries. Let me tell you, I felt sort of idiotic sitting in a kid's movie crying over Pixar people! But it was so profound!
Joy discovers that the memories she has of certain events are vastly different from the memories that Sadness has. Sadness remembers the circumstances that led to Riley's being sad; Joy only remembers the moments after that sadness. She doesn't remember the sadness because that's not who she is. But it is what led to the joy.
Together, they discover that Sadness is a necessary part of living. And Joy learns to share moments of Riley's life with Sadness. Life is never complete joy.
If you haven't seen this movie...oh my gosh..rent it! Now! You'll love it (except that I just ruined it by telling you the whole story)!
Meanwhile, remember this:
Sadness is not a "bad" or "wrong" emotion. Sadness is necessary to healing and a prerequisite to Joy!
Joy can only be experienced by knowing the Sadness that preceded it.
If you're dwelling in the land of Sadness right now...take heart.
Weeping may endure for a night, but Joy comes in the morning (Psalm 30:5).
Song of the Day: Darrell Evans' Trading My Sorrows
Blessings Along the Path,
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Fight Back With Joy: Celebrate More. Regret Less. Stare Down Your Greatest Fears (Margaret Feinberg)
Made to Crave: Satisfying Your Deepest Desire With God, Not Food (Lysa TerKeurst)
Power Thoughts: 12 Strategies to Win the Battle of the Mind (Joyce Meyer)
Audacious (Beth Moore)
Making Good Habits, Breaking Bad Habits: 14 New Behaviors That Will Energize Your Life (Joyce Meyer)
Planted: Sit, Stand, and Walk With Jesus--a 10-week Bible study (Annie Pajcic)--This is the Bible study I'm currently doing that I've referred to several times in this series.
Search for Significance: Seeing Your True Worth Through God's Eyes (Robert McGee)--This book changed my life many years ago.
God is Able (Priscilla Shirer)
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